Friday, January 05, 2007
these past few days, the four of us can see that you both are not on that good terms with each other.
all i want to say is that the things that you both are doing, whether sub-consciously or on purpose, is childish and only serves the purpose of diminishing our respect of you both as our parents. us 3 elder ones and, to a certain extent, teng, are able to see that what you both are doing is absolutely foolish. i am really disappointed that you both are acting this way. i really thought that you two, as an adult and as our parents, should know better than to let this kind of thing affect you both.
seriously, dad, you are the one always teaching us about discipline, about doing the right thing at the right time. but what happened on 31th Dec has in a sense voided that principle, because if you yourself dont set a good example for us to follow, how do you expect us to be disciplined?
mom, just because dad angered you doesnt give you the right to vent your anger on anyone else. i know you two hasn't been on speaking terms with each other, but all i can say is that this cold war is getting nowhere.
frankly, the list of the things done this week that distressed me has quite a few items, but i do not want to list them.
so can you both please stop being so stubborn and just apologise to each other, because you both are at fault here. whether you both dug up any other things to 'discuss' i am not going to bother, but this incident is really affecting all four of us. it is really not worth it to spoil your 19 years of marriage over such matters which, in my opinion, is trivial.
好自为之..
your son
Y11:37 PM
